My question is what does Thank You mean? Ok, to be specific when you tell a girl that you like her and she replies "Thank You!!" that too without any pause.
Yeah, your guess is right, it happened with me few days back and you guys can very well guess the girl. Now if interested let us dive in detail.
We had been meeting all the weekends and this generally happened in a group of 3 or more. So last week I decided that lets have one on one. I asked her out on wednesday for dinner. I had decided that I will atleast tell her that I like her. So we went out to a nearby place on our bikes (yeah its not a fancy bollywood movie and I dont have a spare helmet.) After talking an hour about different things on dinner, I felt that words were not coming out. We were having good time making fun of each other and all. Then I decided that its now or never. So I start: did you like any guys around. Her : Not really, the guys in intel are so old generally. I: but there are so many nice interns around ;). She: .. something ...... I : so what kind of guys do you like? She : lists 3 qualities.. nice , mature and nerdy (yeah she is in engineering;)). I was thinking to myself: my gawd thats a perfect match. Then some silence. She: So did you like any girls. I : Yeah I liked a few. She and me : hehehehehe. (I dont know how I came up with that). then a pause ... And you are one of them. (Man! I could not be more obvious.) She : hehehe. Me : Seriously!!
She: Thank YOu! Silence for a moment and then I switched the topic. This is the best I could do.
Anyways after that we walked home and again we talked about various things like kind of friends we have. and kind of friends she like and life in general. Felt like a good date except the romance part was very less :)).
Again this weekend we went to indian movie had good time together, but perhaps she does not like me in that way. Anyway I am happy that I told her what I felt.
4 comments:
Dude..Nice try. Congratulations. :)
But next time, be more specific than you are one of the girls I like.. It doesnt drive home the point, that she is *the one* you want to be seeing. It just comes across as a nice thing to say, a compliment, which is why she said thank you and nothing else. You have 4 weeks in all, so make a bolder move :)
PS: mature? perfect fit? :-P
hehehe...I disagree with Ramya. Mature and nerdy describes Raju really well. But I agree with Ramya too...what do you mean i like you as well as a whole pack of other interns around here....Raju babu. This calls for a take two. I don't know what you'd say. I love you...Do you love me? sounds way out of tune. I suspect even if she says yes...you'll be love struck and tongue tied for the rest oif the night... = bad for the romance. So i suggest do the romantic stuff..set up a next one-on-one...do something...anything...and keep a definite romantic edge to the conversation...at the end..we can pull out a ' hey, do you want this stuff to continue?' on one of your sing-a-long bike rides at night...btw, that was a right time to gently ask her what she thought you guys had going on? She might ask you...and you could talk about your time together being _really_ special and so on....
at the end above was closer to the end of your intern...like a week before you leave....in that case, you don't have to not see her if the deal turns out flat....:-)
she is leaving this saturday. So I dont have much time left. Yeah more one on ones would have been definitely helpful. But againg looks like thats not going to happen. Might go out with her clubbing tonight. Lets see how it goes. Yeah, now I am taking it easy.
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